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Re: You know new
      #345501 - 05/04/09 08:30 AM
Rebecca1013

Reged: 04/05/09
Posts: 144
Loc: Catasauqua Pennsylvania

Nope I don't belive it has anything to do with you! Just as some of us can handle fruit, and some can't if Miss Minnie can explain to me why some of us can handle certain foods while others can't...but it is so far fetched to believe the same would apply to supplements, I would be extremly interested in hearing her reasoning.

Within the past two weeks there have been a number of posts from her on here talking down to ppl and insulting them, if that is not her intention, then I appoligize, but I found it interesting that not only I feel this way but a number of ppl including the ones who are asking for help that are feeling insulted as well.

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Re: You know new
      #345504 - 05/04/09 08:49 AM
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Hi Everyone,

Wow...well, I have heard that some folks simply cannot tolerate certain fiber supplements. It's important to make sure you are taking them correctly, however, some do have sensitivites to certain supplemental sources of fiber. As this is very rare, we have seen this. I would encourage everyone to do what works for them. Some can handle Soluble fiber supplements and some have allergies or intolerances to concentrated amounts. The best thing to do is to get to know your bodies the best you can...From our experience, the reason the soluble fiber hasn't worked for some in the past were for a few reasons. 1) They started with way too much fiber to begin with 2)They weren't eating correctly to help manage their IBS 3)The stress in their lives overrode any attempt to help their symptoms.

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Re: Jordy..I've never even tried one.nt new
      #345524 - 05/04/09 02:29 PM
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my response new
      #345535 - 05/04/09 06:00 PM
Little Minnie

Reged: 04/16/04
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I have never in 5 years really heard of someone truly stable who does not take a SFS or eat the equivalent in fiber rich foods. Also I have never heard Heather say there are people who can't tolerate a safe SFS. She never promotes her products on this forum and has never curtailed the suggestion of other fiber supplements, teas or pep caps! This forum is free and she doesn't advertise on it. That is something!


I'm sorry you are under the assumption that I demean people. Due to the state of the boards and the many posts about eating triggers I have been doing my job in emphasizing that those foods are not allowed on the EFI plan and this is an EFI board. It does not mean questions and concerns of all natures can't come up and be handled in a helpful way. It is important though to stress to people *who aren't stable* that the best way to get there is by actually following the diet.

I know you have stopped posting, but I have an assumption that you may still read replies to your posts, I will use this opportunity to say I am sick to death of this pervading notion that Heather's diet is 1 vegan and 2 not healthy. Those opinions are 100% false. There is nothing here saying a person needs to eat processed carb crap- it is quite the opposite! And the fact that red meat is hard to digest does not mean that other meat is not perfectly ok for IBS. Just because a few here are vegetarian or vegan does not mean the board is anti-meat!!! That is so offensive to me because I perceive it as being snotty and argumentative. When I tell people not to eat red meat and dairy it is only for those with IBS symptoms who want to alleviate them. My own husband eats dairy and red meat and that is his choice, since he doesn't have digestive issues.

People have come and gone over the years who just couldn't get with the program. I have stuck it out because I want to help people and parlay about IBS. I have been to other IBS forums and I can truly say none are as friendly, helpful or easy-going as this one. 5 years ago when I posted at ibsgroup there was a jerk there who argued with everyone about there being no such thing as trapped gas. He would say mean things and put up rude emoticons. Feel free to go there and talk about meat and carbs. Many there are completely carb free and you can call them anti-carb when they tell you not to eat bread or rice.

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forgot this new
      #345540 - 05/04/09 06:15 PM
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I don't even mention not eating meat here very much. It also isn't in my signature. It is funny because in my post about ground beef being unsafe I had the urge to mention something about the cow, but it wasn't pertinent; yet I still get jabs about not eating meat. Since it seems to be common knowledge I am mentioning it now but won't do so in the future. It does not pertain to anything I say about IBS. And it is mysterious but somehow not eating meat makes everyone instantly assume you think you are better than everyone else. I have noted this with curiosity. I am the same person I was a year ago when I ate poultry. Weird.

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"You absolutely must eat insoluble fiber foods, and as much as safely possible, but within the IBS dietary guidelines. Treat insoluble fiber foods with suitable caution, and you'll be able to enjoy a wide variety of them, in very healthy quantities, without problem." Please eat IF foods!

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another opinion new
      #345544 - 05/04/09 07:03 PM
Janey

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I have been a member of the boards for 6 years. Things have changed so much lately that is makes me very sad. This used to be a place where we truly did come for support. We were all friends. Now it seems there is one side against the other.

Lately I feel negative vibes from people that don't believe in the EFI diet and conflict with those that do. I find this very interesting because many are not stable yet they still want to undermine the good that is going on here.

The fact is that anyone with IBS has to change their diet and give up foods they are used to eating or love. We have all been there and it doesn't matter if it is beef or whole grain breads, etc. I read on the diet board that eating bread is terrible for people even those that don't have IBS. I can personally atest that eating white rice, white bread and other soluable fiber foods recommended is the reason that I am now stable. Are whole grain breads and brown rice better to eat? Probably, but not when they send me running to the bathroom with an attack of D which is what happens when I eat whole grains. I don't know about others but I am willing to give up what ever nutritional value whole grains provide to be D free and to be able to live a normal life.

For Those that can't seem to bring themselves to eat white rice, white bread and carbs it seems that you don't want to be stable and live without IBS worries and pain. If there are some that are against this diet why do you hang around the boards and bring negative vibes to others who want to feel better? Some accuse Little Minnie of not wanting to help others but what is actually happening is that those who post against the diet are the ones that are not helping.

Learning to follow the EFI diet is confusing enough for newbies without having people commenting on how the foods listed on the safe list are not good to eat.

I can tell you that there is a huge difference in the support on the diet board now than when I first joined. Now members want support for eating things that are known for triggering IBS symptoms. A few years ago the support helped people learn to eat in a way that relieved IBS symptoms. It was positive support from people who knew from experience that the EFI diet works and they gave hope to newbies that life can be better. Now it seems that there are many that don't want advice from those of us that are stable.

Heather has worked very hard to come up with a diet that works and to get the information out there so others can benefit from her experience. The diet board is a great place to learn how to eat so that you can feel better. These are Heather's boards and she has a right to run them the way she invisioned to best promote a diet that does work. Those that disagree really need to keep your negative thoughts to yourself because it doesn't help promote a feeling of support here. Positive support is something that we all need.

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Re: Janey new
      #345550 - 05/04/09 10:08 PM
GaGa

Reged: 01/12/08
Posts: 534
Loc: Florida

You go, Girl! I hate confusion and conflict. This is no place for it. It is to be a safe haven for all of us to go when we need support.
Of course we aren't always going to agree, but I've had a few "licks" from people over things I've posted too. I just try to take it in stride..."hurting people, hurt people".
BUT - This is Heather's Site - she created it - thank goodness! I don't follow it to the "T" - and I'm one of those who should be wheat/gluten/dairy, etc. free, but when I have a flare I head for the mini bagels, white rice, applesauce, sourdough bread until I'm better. Same with meat, I don't particularly like it and it seems to cause me to have "C", but I know I need more protein - then I know I don't get enough good fats because I can't eat nuts and sometimes just a little olive oil can cause a flare but know I need more protein None of us are alike, other than we share the same illness. But, to my knowledge, no one has all the answers - that's why we are here... to gain knowledge and support one another.
There's too much negativity in the real world, don't need it here.
And, to my knowledge, no one on here has all the answers!
But, I thank you all for supporting me and for being open enough to share successes as well as "bad days"....
Janey, you seem to be a very kind, fair person and I appreciate you speaking your mind...
Blessings to everyone!! - Dorothy


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Re: but we were only talking about acacia -nt new
      #345587 - 05/05/09 10:50 AM
Syl

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Many soluble fiber supplements are not "the same fiber you eat without the food". Some soluble fibers are derived from unusual plants not commonly found in Western diets. For example Gum Arabic is a fermentable complex carbohydrate with prebiotic properties that is unique to the acacia shrub/tree. The gum is used as a food additive (E414) to stablize or thicken and as a soluble fiber supplement. The soluble fiber in gum arabic is not something people would encounter in their normal diet unless they eat processed foods, beverages or candies to which it has been added. It is not surprising as witnessed by reports on this board that some people may have problems with this soluble fiber supplement too.

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This is going to change... new
      #345589 - 05/05/09 11:07 AM
HeatherAdministrator

Reged: 12/09/02
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Loc: Seattle, WA

Thanks for your comments, Janey. I've had so many complaints from folks about how the boards have become argumentative, disagreeable, and way off track from the EFI dietary guidelines. I have always tried to err on the side of being as permissible as possible, but I think I've gone too far in that direction.

From now on, I'm just going to lock posts that are clearly off topic and if someone continues to post in violation of the board guidelines we'll just ban them. At this point, I would genuinely prefer that those who don't want to follow the EFI diet simply leave this board and find another one that is more suitable for them.

The whole point of this board is to help people to follow the EFI diet, not to help them circumvent it.

I appreciate your candor and comments and I hope you see this board return to the helpful and friendly forum it used to be.

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