I'm not older, nor do I pretend to be wiser, but I do have a Special Ed Specialist and have taught several ADHD students.
Obviously, see the Doc ASAP re that med change.
In the meantime, are you telling him to think before he speaks? (I'm sure you are) You may have to drill this in him like a broken record but I have found it helpful if they get used to asking themselves should they say what's on their mind FIRST.
Also, make sure the time out is in a place with NO distractions. No phone, TV, etc. or traffic moving in and out. Make it as secluded and as quiet as possible. It makes it easier for them to think. Also, after time out, ask him why he got the time out and what he has to do to avoid it next time.
I think you're doing the right thing by the consequences. It may not seem to be working, but it takes time with ADHD kids. You are sending the message loud and clear that this is unacceptable and there will be unpleasant consequences for his actions. I know it's heartbreaking not to send him to the party, but that may just be the message that hits home with him. You never know.
Also, there have been previous discussions on this board about ADHD. Several supermoms brainstorming strategies. I would do a board search. You may come up with more helpful info.
Hugs, han.
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