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      07/06/04 06:45 AM
barbie

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Hey Barbara,

I am so sorry that you are having a rough time, especially on your anniversary. Happy Anniversary, anyway. Have you just recently been having problems?

We have been married 37 yrs and there were some rough spots along the way, too. Especially when you are trying to raise children....that just adds to the tension sometimes. And then there's the "mid life crisis" trauma. I think most good marriages go through rough patches at some time or another.

It always helped me to write down how I felt and then get all my ideas together and then we would talk and try to work it out....with some give and take on both our parts.

Anyway, I am so glad I stuck it out because I am happier now than ever....But I still get mad at him like yesterday when we were pressure washing the driveway and it was hot and I was ready to be through and he kept pushing.....let's do a little bit more<<<WAH>>>I got through it, though, and then he took me out for Italian food afterwards and I was better than ever!!!

Do you have a friend you can talk to? I know I worked with a girl that had lots of husband problems and after she talked it out with me she always felt better. It's not good to keep it all inside.

Good Luck
Barbie

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* It is my 13th Anniversary today.
BarbaraS
07/06/04 05:24 AM
* Thanks for your replies.....
BarbaraS
07/07/04 04:53 AM
* Jumping in a little late, but wanted to resond
bamagirl
07/07/04 10:45 AM
* Re: Thanks for your replies.....
JBI
07/07/04 10:05 AM
* A Different Opinion From Jamie's
Bevvy
07/07/04 11:35 AM
* Re: A Different Opinion From Jamie's
JBI
07/07/04 05:26 PM
* Gee. GEE. Thanks, Jamie! -- nt
Bevvy
07/07/04 06:21 PM
* Re: A Different Opinion From Jamie's
LauraSue
07/07/04 01:38 PM
* Re: Thanks for your replies.....
LauraSue
07/07/04 08:56 AM
* Re: Thanks for your replies.....
barbie
07/07/04 06:20 AM
* Re: Thanks for your replies.....
gigi
07/07/04 11:39 AM
* Re: It is my 13th Anniversary today.
####
07/06/04 11:03 AM
* Re: It is my 13th Anniversary today.
LittleLisa
07/06/04 10:49 AM
* Re: It is my 13th Anniversary today.
RachelT
07/06/04 09:45 AM
* Re: It is my 13th Anniversary today.
LauraSue
07/06/04 08:55 AM
* Re: It is my 13th Anniversary today.
LauraSue
07/06/04 09:03 AM
* Re: Laura Sue
gigi
07/06/04 09:25 AM
* Re: It is my 13th Anniversary today.
torbetta
07/06/04 08:47 AM
* Re: It is my 13th Anniversary today.
Betty F
07/06/04 08:20 AM
* Re: It is my 13th Anniversary today.
countrygirl
07/08/04 06:49 AM
* Some Thoughts for Barb
Bevvy
07/06/04 07:24 AM
* from my side of the fence...
jenX
07/06/04 07:10 AM
* more...
jenX
07/06/04 08:52 AM
* And Standing at that Fence .....
Bevvy
07/06/04 07:31 AM
* Oh Bev, please, please, pretty please......
barbie
07/06/04 08:03 AM
* Cut No Slack --
Bevvy
07/06/04 08:41 AM
* Nope, no slack will be cut here....and..
barbie
07/06/04 11:25 AM
* AND --
Bevvy
07/06/04 11:43 AM
* and more.......
barbie
07/06/04 12:32 PM
* ew. -nt-
jenX
07/06/04 08:53 AM
* toilet seats
jenX
07/06/04 08:00 AM
* hey, i think his wife owes me big! in fact, not only did i train him, he still has that cat! -nt-
jenX
07/06/04 08:01 AM
* Hey, Jen! Do you give classes on toilet seat training? -nt-
barbie
07/06/04 08:08 AM
* my ex is a newlywed with no $, i bet he'd rent out the cat!!! -nt-
jenX
07/06/04 08:16 AM
* To Barbara
barbie
07/06/04 06:45 AM
* Yeah -- What Sis Said
Bevvy
07/06/04 07:39 AM
* Happy anniversary! Thinking of you.---nt---
BL
07/06/04 06:00 AM
* Re: It is my 13th Anniversary today.
Janey
07/06/04 05:39 AM
* Re: It is my 13th Anniversary today.
countrygirl
07/06/04 05:36 AM
* Barbara and Janey, Happy Anniversary! long post
gigi
07/06/04 08:43 AM
* 20 years
Janey
07/06/04 12:19 PM
* Only three years of marital experience, but...
ChristineM
07/06/04 12:37 PM
* I hope you have a better day, Barabara! Happy anniversary!!!! -nt-
peaches
07/06/04 02:47 PM
* "BaraBara!" Oooh, I Like That, Peaches! -nt-
Bevvy
07/06/04 03:09 PM
* I also hope your day went well -
ibsgrl
07/06/04 03:23 PM
* Oops, typo!! But it's pretty cool, nonetheless! -nt-
peaches
07/06/04 03:33 PM
* Well, I'm only at a measly six years...
chinagrl
07/06/04 08:28 AM
* Re: Well, I'm only at a measly six years...
LauraSue
07/06/04 09:00 AM

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