You'll Do GREAT, Cutie!
06/14/04 11:10 AM
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Bevvy
Reged: 11/04/03
Posts: 5918
Loc: Northwest Washington State
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Ashley, honey, give him some time. You've only been gone a very short while.
Could it be that the reason you're going off the deep end is because you don't know anyone at your mom's? You need to meet people. The new job will solve that problem. It's a good thing. Instead of focusing so much on the BF, throw all that energy into your new job. It's a waitress job? Okay, then be the BEST waitress they've ever seen. I love to go to ihop for breakfast OR lunch -- I don't care which -- just because I LOVE one of the waitresses there -- Georgeann. She's an absolute delight. She hugs me every time she sees me -- and she's a good hugger too! I ask for one of her tables, and I always leave a big tip. I watch how she relates to others in the restaurant, and it's obvious she loves people -- and they love her! (By the way, she's such a giving person that she grows her lush, thick hair very long, just to have it all cut off and donated to the children's cancer society -- they make wigs out of it for the children who've lost their hair from all the chemotherapy; she does this every year.) I just LOVE GeorgeAnn.
I can guarantee you that Georgeann ain't lonely!
Vinnie is trying to tell you that he needs some space right now. Give it to him! The more you push, the farther he's gonna run from you. I know you love him, that's perfectly clear -- oh yeah! -- but you can't talk him into loving you back. If the two of you were meant to be together, then he'll come back to you. If you were not meant to be together, then it's best that you're apart; otherwise, you'd both end up miserable.
I'm sorry I'm not telling you what you want to hear, but you have so much going for you that others need to discover and appreciate, obviously far more than Vinnie can.
I hate to think of you back there with a broken heart. Please consider what I've said. Give him some time, let him miss you a little -- while you get out there and be the best damn waitress EVER, meeting people and enjoying someone else's company.
Bevvy
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