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Re: Overwhelmed?
      06/06/04 03:21 PM
LauraSue

Reged: 01/14/04
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Loc: New York City

Hi, Nugget, I see you already got some really good replies, but I so related that I had to answer too. The way I used to describe it was I wanted the rest of the world to just STOP for 48 hours so I could catch up!!

I have learned some techniques over the years for detaching from my worries. One of the best and easiest sounds simplistic but really works, which is to focus JUST on the present moment and what you can accomplish or do something about right now. Just ask yourself, "What is the next right thing to do?" and then do it. If you find the worrisome thoughts crowding back in, just visualize a stop sign and say "STOP!" to them! It sounds silly but if you do those two things often enough you can train your brain the same way you train your dogs!!

Also, remember that worrying about the future doesn't change a thing, it's just a waste of energy better spent on taking good care of yourself today. As they say,

Yesterday is history, tomorrow's a mystery, today is a gift, that's why they call it the "present"!!

Feel better sweetie. Oh, yeah and Xanax helps a whole bunch!! I take it and look how happy I am!!

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Laura
Keep it simple!

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* Overwhelmed?
Nugget
06/06/04 09:44 AM
* Re: Overwhelmed?
Shell Marr
06/07/04 01:03 PM
* horrible anxiety this morning....
Nugget
06/07/04 07:48 AM
* Re: horrible anxiety this morning....
littleone24
06/08/04 04:50 AM
* I know how you feel....
Nugget
06/08/04 08:52 AM
* Was able to get in to see my doctor and now I'm back to work....
Nugget
06/07/04 12:35 PM
* Re: Was able to get in to see my doctor and now I'm back to work....
Dimples
06/10/04 04:11 AM
* Thank you Pat.....
Nugget
06/10/04 07:32 AM
* Re: Thank you Pat..... (Anytime!!!)
Dimples
06/10/04 07:53 AM
* Re: Thank you Pat..... (Anytime!!!)
LauraSue
06/10/04 11:22 AM
* Re: Thank you Pat..... (Anytime!!!) THANKS LAURA SUE!! NT
Dimples
06/10/04 01:26 PM
* I think Pat is a SWEETIE PIE !!!!! -NT-
gigi
06/10/04 03:30 PM
* Medications.....
Nugget
06/10/04 08:27 AM
* Sleepy pills
Linz
06/10/04 08:00 AM
* Good luck Nugget
Linz
06/10/04 07:36 AM
* Thanks Linz....
Nugget
06/10/04 08:31 AM
* Re: Was able to get in to see my doctor and now I'm back to work....
BL
06/08/04 05:29 AM
* sleepy....sleepy.....sleepy.....zzzzzzz.....
Nugget
06/08/04 08:58 AM
* PS: Nugget
jenX
06/08/04 09:19 AM
* Re: Was able to get in to see my doctor and now I'm back to work....
jenX
06/07/04 05:00 PM
* two weeks, huh?.....
Nugget
06/08/04 09:04 AM
* Re: two weeks, huh?.....
jenX
06/08/04 09:06 AM
* side effects.....
Nugget
06/08/04 09:15 AM
* Hey Now.....my son's name is Randy.....
barbie
06/08/04 11:04 AM
* actually, Nugget....
jenX
06/08/04 09:20 AM
* Re: Was able to get in to see my doctor and now I'm back to work....
LauraSue
06/07/04 01:44 PM
* So sorry, Nugget....
barbie
06/07/04 11:50 AM
* Big hugs for Nugget!
Jennifer Rose
06/07/04 11:54 AM
* Re: horrible anxiety this morning....
Stephie
06/07/04 09:50 AM
* Modays....
jenX
06/07/04 08:21 AM
* Re: Mondays.... Great Idea Jen, BUT!
Dimples
06/07/04 09:06 AM
* "Little Miss Sunshine"
jenX
06/07/04 09:39 AM
* Oh No, Jen!
barbie
06/07/04 11:56 AM
* for Barbie and all...
jenX
06/07/04 04:50 PM
* Re: "Little Miss Sunshine" I KNEW that! But You ARE still Little Miss Sunshine most of the time!! nt
Dimples
06/07/04 09:56 AM
* Re: horrible anxiety this morning....
Linz
06/07/04 08:09 AM
* Re: horrible anxiety this morning....
LauraSue
06/07/04 08:01 AM
* Re: horrible anxiety this morning.... Laura Sue! Good Job!!!
Dimples
06/07/04 08:54 AM
* Re: horrible anxiety this morning.... Laura Sue! Good Job!!!
LauraSue
06/07/04 09:27 AM
* Re: Overwhelmed?
LauraSue
06/06/04 03:21 PM
* Re: Overwhelmed?
tuxedocat
06/06/04 08:14 PM
* Re: Overwhelmed?
Nugget
06/07/04 05:36 AM
* Thanks for such a great idea, Laura....
Nugget
06/06/04 03:56 PM
* Re: Thanks for such a great idea, Laura....
LauraSue
06/06/04 06:24 PM
* OK...I'll try to evict them, Laura....-nt-
Nugget
06/06/04 07:54 PM
* Re: Overwhelmed?
Dimples
06/06/04 01:55 PM
* patricia....
Nugget
06/06/04 04:00 PM
* Re: patricia.... (I"m Here)
Dimples
06/07/04 05:07 AM
* I will....-nt-
Nugget
06/07/04 05:38 AM
* So sorry, Nugget.....
barbie
06/06/04 10:53 AM
* we sound so much alike....
Nugget
06/06/04 12:02 PM
* Dogs
Linz
06/07/04 06:01 AM
* Re: we sound so much alike....
barbie
06/06/04 12:36 PM
* I'm glad you have a different dentist....
Nugget
06/06/04 04:04 PM
* Re: Overwhelmed?
ibsgrl
06/06/04 09:52 AM
* I'll tie a knot and hang on, but sometimes.....
Nugget
06/06/04 10:12 AM
* Re: I'll tie a knot and hang on, but sometimes.....
countrygirl
06/06/04 12:53 PM
* remedy for pulling.....
Nugget
06/06/04 04:08 PM
* Re: Nugget
michele
06/07/04 08:03 AM
* Re: remedy for pulling.....
Linz
06/07/04 05:58 AM
* Re: I'll tie a knot and hang on, but sometimes.....
ibsgrl
06/06/04 10:21 AM

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