Irritable Bowel Syndrome Message Boards | LOL, joys of dating, long post

Jen, you are good!! LOL! You have some great ideas!! I think it's hard being a gal. We can't approach the opposite sex in such gusto or with such aggression. Now, I'm pretty extroverted and very friendly but I would rarely make the first move, especially approaching a stranger to strike up a conversation. Ask for their opponion on the "Peachy Ginger tea" at a Cafe, yes, I would do that!! That's one I've got to remember! **SMILE**

Dating is so tuff. I'm enjoying my single-hood too, just me and my cat... but yet companionship is so wonderful.

I'm single and here's where I go...

the gym is a good one. Just don't approach her to chat. Try asking her if you can "work in". Meaning ask her if she will share the machine she's on. That's a good way because you can get close enough to smile and make eye contact. Make sure you wipe your sweat off the machine each time though, it's a nice gesture.

I took a writing class a couple of years ago. Great place to meet someone, all we did was talk! Not a poet..

Join a growth group thru a church. Maybe Christianity is not your thing, but lot's of young people there. Great place to show off your baking skills. Girls love a guy who can bake and cook.

Walk your cat. I'm trying to train mine. Take her to the park for a walk. Girls will flock to a good looking guy walking his cat! I know I would!! Besides, it's funny, it would make me laugh. Most guys don't even like cats!! You have one up there!

Join a running group or biking group. Or a book exchange club.

The best one is....the grocery market!! Everyone has to go...ask her where the floss is. All gals like nice teeth. That would get my attention.

goodluck!

my best advice is don't search just set up "funny or not" senerios. Make her laugh, catch her off guard. Get her attention. ""Accidently"" Knock off all the boxes of tea (when she's NOT looking), if she's nice she'll help you pick them up. If she doesn't help...well...not meant to be. She probably keeps a messy house anyways!! **SMILE**

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