Irritable Bowel Syndrome Message Boards | Re: Thanks for all the tips

I was 16yrs old and just broken up with an emotionally(sometimes Physically)abusive boyfriend.I was working part time on weekends at a Steak House,the head cook,a very sweet lady befriended me and knew i was going thru alot with my ex boyfriend calling me and harrassing me.One night he called me at work,i almost got fired for it! I griped about "stupid boys" and she said she had 4 boys at home if i ever needed a date,she would set something up.Prom was coming up,so my girlfriend and i went dress shopping.We planned to go as one big group of girls without dates. We just happened to stop at the head cook's house to say hello. There my husband was,the "baby" of the family,just 2 years older than me.I thought he was the most gorgeous guy on earth!! Things didnt go too smooth at first though,he hit his head on the light fixture when he walked in the house and i laughed outloud, he shot me a dirty look,and i figured i blew any chance with him at that moment.He later told me he thought i was too "snobby" for him.LOL, i am just a little shy at first,he may have taken that as being "snobby"?,,,anyway,somehow before the day was over we got to talking,his best friend Nathan was putting the moves on me very bluntly and i think my husband got jealous, we ended up talking for hours,Nathan ended up focusing on my girlfriend knowing i was more interested in my "future husband" than i was with him. When he found out i was going to the prom with a group of girls he offered to take me to my prom,even though we did not attend the same high school. We have been together ever since,dated for 4 years before we married and have been married going on 14 years now. At first my parents thought i could do better,but now they love him. Ever hear that song by Trisha Yearwood "She's in love with the boy"?,,,,that song always reminds me of my husband and I. So i guess you could say we are high school sweethearts,even if we didnt attend the same high school. Hey, now that's a thought,maybe you could hook up with someone at your next high school reunion?...just a thought.

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