Have you thought about online dating services? I know, some might roll their eyes at that suggestion,but there is a website called eharmony.com that is supposed to be for people looking for serious relationships and values.It might be somewhat Christian based(not sure how you feel about that) but atleast you aren't likely to get paired up with some "shady" people with no goals or values.It is surprising though how many people have found a wonderful mate thru online dating.Grocery stores are another good place to meet women,the malls,bookstores,coffee shops,music concerts.Good Luck, sometimes you meet the person of your dreams when you least expect it!!!