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Re: update ( You Tried Ashley!!)
      05/25/04 08:28 AM
Dimples

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Ashley I feel bad that you're so miserable.

You tried talking to him but I think now is the time to wait (no matter how hard it is) and let HIM broach the subject of what he plans to do.

I can't say act like you don't care because I know you can't do that, you're too upset and you DO care.

What I would like to suggest is that if you have some girlfriends you could go out with tonight to a movie or just to the mall etc., try doing something like that until things settle down there. Maybe by the time you come back he'll tell you what's REALLY on his mind.

From what you say it sounds like he wants his space for awhile but is afraid to just tell you that. He may be afraid there will be a scene if he does. If this is true I know it will be very hard for you hon, but you want to know the truth about what he's thinking don't you?

Just wait to see if he'll come to you and if he does try to talk calmly about it. I know it's hard but if you let him say what he wants to and let him finish, it will let you know what he really wants to do.

If he really loves you and wants to be with you as much as you want to be with him, believe me he will let you know as he won't want to lose you.

Just give it some time today and try to do something else that will help take your mind off this for a while until he decides to talk about it.

My thoughts are with you,
Pat



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Dr. Spice Yamin
05/24/04 05:53 PM
* Ashley! I'm sorry!
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05/25/04 08:24 AM
* Amanda's Advice
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05/26/04 09:17 AM
* Re: Amanda's Advice
AmandaPanda, J.D.
05/26/04 09:31 AM
* Right On, Amanda!
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05/26/04 09:36 AM
* Re: Right On, Amanda!
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05/26/04 09:41 AM
* thanks amandapanda!!
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05/25/04 08:47 AM
* Re: thanks amandapanda!!
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05/25/04 10:33 AM
* Re: thanks amandapanda!!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 12:27 PM
* Ashley
StephS
05/25/04 09:34 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
Dimples
05/25/04 04:28 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 06:01 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
Dimples
05/25/04 06:06 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 06:24 AM
* update
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 07:03 AM
* Re: update
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05/25/04 10:37 AM
* Re: update
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05/25/04 12:32 PM
* Re: update (Good For You Ashley)
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05/25/04 01:58 PM
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05/25/04 01:25 PM
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05/25/04 03:50 PM
* Re: julee
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05/25/04 06:03 PM
* Re: update
bttrfly08
05/25/04 08:38 AM
* Re: update ( You Tried Ashley!!)
Dimples
05/25/04 08:28 AM
* Does This Ever Sound Familiar, Ashley!
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05/25/04 01:21 AM
* Re: Does This Ever Sound Familiar, Ashley!
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05/25/04 06:00 AM
* Ashley!
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05/25/04 06:08 PM
* Re: Ashley!
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05/25/04 09:00 PM
* Re: Ashley!
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05/26/04 08:21 AM
* Re: Ashley!
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05/26/04 10:48 AM
* Re: Ashley!
Linz
05/25/04 09:08 PM
* Ashely how are things going for you now?
StephS
05/25/04 09:31 PM
* Answers for you steph......
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05/25/04 10:10 PM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
JBI
05/24/04 07:30 PM
* Jamie---VERY well put. What would this board do without you? -nt-
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05/25/04 09:43 AM
* RE: Needing help with boyfriend problems: JAMIE, I HAVE TO COMMEND YOU
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05/25/04 04:05 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
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05/24/04 07:50 PM
* Jamie you are so sweet! - nt
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05/24/04 06:11 PM
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05/24/04 06:19 PM
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