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Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
      05/25/04 04:28 AM
Dimples

Reged: 04/01/04
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Hi Ashley,

First I read your post and then I read Jamie's post to you before I decided to write to you about this.

Jamie gave you some great advice and some great insight into what men feel.

I know you're a young girl and in love. Sometimes we can care for someone so much that we don't realize that they need some time to themselves. I think all of us are guilty of doing that at one time or another.

Men are not as emotional as we are and most men hate emotional outbursts even though that is how most girls and women react to these things.

I don't think 17 miles is far for him to drive if he really wanted to share the same apartment. The question you need to ask yourself (and ask of him also) is it because he wants time to himself. He can still care about you and want to spend some time by himself. I would want to know how the other person feels on this subject so I know where we both stand.

If someone loves you enough they will ALWAYS come back to you. Having a ring doesn't make a relationship more solid. There are a lot of married people who don't have a solid relationship even though they have the rings and the marriage certificate.

I would try to calmly talk to him to see what HE wants out of the relationship. If it's not what you're looking for in a relationship then it's better you find out now.

I think it's good that you will be going home soon as it will give you time to think things over. I don't agree that absence always makes the heart grow fonder, but I think absence gives us a chance to really think things out logically.

Please let us know how things work out for you. We know you feel brokenhearted right now and want the best for you, no matter what the outcome is. Since I beleive in honesty more than anything I would try to find out why HE wants to make some changes.

Best of luck to you hon,

Pat

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* AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/24/04 05:53 PM
* Ashley! I'm sorry!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
05/25/04 08:24 AM
* Amanda's Advice
JBI
05/26/04 09:17 AM
* Re: Amanda's Advice
AmandaPanda, J.D.
05/26/04 09:31 AM
* Right On, Amanda!
Bevvy
05/26/04 09:36 AM
* Re: Right On, Amanda!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
05/26/04 09:41 AM
* thanks amandapanda!!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 08:47 AM
* Re: thanks amandapanda!!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
05/25/04 10:33 AM
* Re: thanks amandapanda!!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 12:27 PM
* Ashley
StephS
05/25/04 09:34 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
Dimples
05/25/04 04:28 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 06:01 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
Dimples
05/25/04 06:06 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 06:24 AM
* update
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 07:03 AM
* Re: update
chinagrl
05/25/04 10:37 AM
* Re: update
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 12:32 PM
* Re: update (Good For You Ashley)
Dimples
05/25/04 01:58 PM
* Re: update
JuLee
05/25/04 01:25 PM
* julee
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 03:50 PM
* Re: julee
JuLee
05/25/04 06:03 PM
* Re: update
bttrfly08
05/25/04 08:38 AM
* Re: update ( You Tried Ashley!!)
Dimples
05/25/04 08:28 AM
* Does This Ever Sound Familiar, Ashley!
Bevvy
05/25/04 01:21 AM
* Re: Does This Ever Sound Familiar, Ashley!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 06:00 AM
* Ashley!
Linz
05/25/04 06:08 PM
* Re: Ashley!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 09:00 PM
* Re: Ashley!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
05/26/04 08:21 AM
* Re: Ashley!
TommyNY
05/26/04 10:48 AM
* Re: Ashley!
Linz
05/25/04 09:08 PM
* Ashely how are things going for you now?
StephS
05/25/04 09:31 PM
* Answers for you steph......
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 10:10 PM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
JBI
05/24/04 07:30 PM
* Jamie---VERY well put. What would this board do without you? -nt-
Kandee
05/25/04 09:43 AM
* RE: Needing help with boyfriend problems: JAMIE, I HAVE TO COMMEND YOU
Dimples
05/25/04 04:05 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/24/04 07:50 PM
* Jamie you are so sweet! - nt
Linz
05/24/04 07:34 PM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
Linz
05/24/04 06:11 PM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/24/04 06:19 PM
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05/24/04 06:23 PM
* I'm going to be Negative Nelly
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05/24/04 09:10 PM

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