Steph, honey, sorry you're having a bad day. We should have an honorary pity party plaque that we can pass around to whoever needs it that day, like a talking stick? So you get for today, but who knows, I might need it tomorrow. Hopefully, we all won't need it the same day!!
And as far as tanning, my dermatologist is one of the best in the city and she has articles all over her office wall about how a SMALL amount of sun is not only okay but beneficial. How else can we make our Vitamin D?! And for me, it is truly relaxing. I must be part lizard! Just wear a little sunscreen and don't feel ONE BIT guilty!!