Oh I know Bev... I just think that every once and awhile we all worry because in our society it's such a bad thing to complain and be honest about your feelings. It's hard to accept that there's a place where it's ok as long as you don't dwell in your misery. After all, I know that at least for me it took a long time to find a place where people even understood my medical stuff, let along were sympathetic, you know?