Reged: 11/04/03
Posts: 5918
Loc: Northwest Washington State
You guys are so silly. You mean to tell me you really don't know who it is? I would have thought it's obvious.
That's right; we all complain. That's what we do here. We also offer help and constructive advice. Then there are some people who don't want the help or constructive advice, all they want to do is suffer and complain and wallow in self-pity. No matter how encouraging you are to them, it's not what they want to hear. You can offer them support until you're blue in the face, and it's not enough.
In the short time I've been on the boards, with all your help and Heather's, and Michael's, I've gotten 95% better. This person -- who was here before me -- has gotten absolutely nowhere; if anything, the person has gotten even worse.
I'm sorry for the person, I truly am, because the person will never get better. It's more important to the person to wallow in self pity than to TRY to get better.
But it just proves that Heather was right all along -- because that's exactly what she told me when I first joined.