Thanks Jen....I have discussed this to a point with my husband. And for the most part he is very understanding. But, his answer still is "you worry too much....just don't worry about things." And my reply is "how?! If I knew how not to worry...I wouldn't be in this mess!" I think he thinks it's all about a choice to worry or not worry...and it isn't. So I'm a little leary of telling him any more...because I know what the answer will be. Not that he doesn't care...he cares deeply....he just doesn't "get it". Ya know? As some others just don't get it.