sorry you feel that way. but yes, you're totally right. there is a special 'cool' group of people on these boards. It's just like highschool, first you have to pay us your lunch money for a week, and then after initiation we'll decide if you're cool enough. Although, there's this new group called the 'losers' starting up, so I don't know about that
But seriously, sorry to hear you feel that way. The people on these boards are really really nice and I don't think it's on purpose and if you stick around a bit I'm sure you'll feel happier.