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why he was in a mood last week and wouldn't talk. He get's that way when he works too many long days in a row. Then I start feeling sorry for myself thinking "why doesn't he just say no to them once in a while so we can have some quality time." I know, I know....I do appreciate any time we have together, but not when he's in this kind of a mood. I feel like I just get the raw end of the deal having to put up with the grumpy moods and tiredness. I know, I know....I've had my fair share of grumpy moods. I guess the reason it bothers me so much is that I grew up with my dad doing the same thing....working long hours just to come home and sleep in his chair most of the time. Sure, we had some very good times, but he also missed out on a lot of my and my brother's childhood because he wouldn't say "no" to his employer....he was and still is a work aholic. I guess I'm just feeling sorry for myself.

I laughed at what you said about you and your hubby being on top of one another and not in a good way.

Thanks for listening, Bev.

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