You really will regret having an affair. Think about why you married your husband - what drew you to him? Why do you love him? In what ways does he take care of you and your son? Think of how an affair could affect your son...I'm sure you want to provide a stable family life for him, and want to model the best way to handle a difficult situation. Don't think of your husband as your enemy. You are both on the same side as partners. This is a challenge you need to figure out together. Talk to him.
You must talk to him about how stressful this situation is for you. It is imperative. I don't blame you for being angry at him for making you stay in a place that makes you so unhappy. But he can only have a chance to change the situation if you make it very clear that you cannot live like this. I know your husband does not believe saving money is more important than your sanity and your marriage.
This is a difficult challenge in your marriage, but you will make it through because you love each other and you love your son. You can do it!!
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Re: Need Advice! Have you ever cheated on or thought about cheating on your spouse?
