I didn't mean to lash out on you. I just didn't really WANT to hear what you posted but I know I NEEDED to hear it.
Please forgive me. I'm just trying to make it today.
DH and I have an old colored lady we go and check on in the evenings. She is 84 and lives alone. Her husband died earlier this year. She is in fairly good condition for her age, but we are afraid she won't make it much longer. It's very sad.
On top of that, my grandparents are in very poor health. My grandfather was in the hospital before the wedding, and my grandmother just got out of the hospital. He is stressing her WAY OUT!!!! It makes me upset to see him treat her the way he does. He's old-fashioned and wants her to wait on him hand and foot.
My parents are also not doing well. Mom is an alcoholic, and Dad is a diebetic with RA and Diverticulosis and high blood pressure, and he doesn't have a very steady job. Long story.
Anyway, I'm sorry, again. And I'm sorry to hear about your mother and that you can't go on vacation. You need to get your other family members involved. Make them!!! Don't guilt trip them, just tell them you can't do it ALL!!!!!
HUGS. Kappy
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