Oh Kappy, you have to see it from their perspective. They are not setting out to ruin you. Sometimes we tend to blame the world for our condition, and all they are doing is getting on with living. They don't know where you're coming from, so, no, they will not get it, at least in this lifetime, but that does not make them bad people, nor does it make you a bad person. They don't purposefully bring in all that so-called "bad" food, to ruin your day.
It seems to me that you are upsetting yourself about something you have no control over. Sorry, but DH is right. Not only are you making yourself miserable about the food, but you are making yourself mentally/emotionally a mess. How is that helping the IBS?
Most of us have to work, so we have to learn how to deal with co-workers. Most mean no harm, but for those few that are unkind human beings...do what DH says and blow them off. Just worry about you and not what everyone else is doing. Have you ever shared with your co-workers that you have a medical condition? I bet they would be more understanding than you think.
I am not trying to be hard on you, but take a listen to yourself. Is it your co-workers making you miserable, or is it you making you miserable?????
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