Irritable Bowel Syndrome Message Boards | Re: Cant deal with the dissapointment

To be blunt, that sounds pretty crappy of him. Does DH have the same feelings about him? I would be biting my tongue not to tell him what I thought of him & his actions. At least you have the boards to come & vent! We're all happy to listen & empathize with your situation. I'm so glad I started visiting the boards again because it has helped me gain so much perspective. There are many of you who are going through the same experiences (or have gone through them) and have the same thoughts & feelings that I do. It helps so much to "talk" to all of you or even just put our voices in writing.

My white trash family story is of my cousin Peggy. She got married when she was 19, divorced a few months later, knocked up by a random dude a couple months after that & gave birth to her first child in June of 2006. A couple months after that she got knocked up by another random dude & had her second child in May of 2007. While pregnant with the second child she met "the greatest man on earth" and got married. They also got pregnant a couple months after the 2nd birth and she is now due with her third child next month. Her current husband & Peggy are not fit to raise 1 child let alone 3. I have asked myself so many times how she was able to conceive 3 times & I can't even though I am in a loving, committed, stable marriage & we would love nothing more than to welcome a baby to our family.

I recently started to focus on the positive things in my life. I know, easier said than done but it has helped me some. Like last month when my period came I decided that it was okay b/c my due date would have been right at Thanksgiving time if I had conceived that month & I would have missed out on 2 paid days off from work! Silly I know!

I've got my fingers crossed that somebody has some good news this month. I just took my last round of Clomid for this cycle last night & the side affects are at their prime right now. I pray that this is my last month of all this infertility stuff and we can finally conceive. Good luck to everyone!

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IBS-A, with bloating and gas as my predominant symptoms

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