I'm just getting to this thread today, but I want to send you all some (((hugs))). I hope your journeys to a healthy baby are short ones!
If you're new to charting, I highly recommend Toni Wechsler's Taking Charge of Your Fertility. If there is no medical reason you haven't conceived, it can definitely help you get pregnant faster and understand what your body is doing!
Good luck!
-------------------- Christine
Those who can do; those who want it done better teach.