Irritable Bowel Syndrome Message Boards | Just pitching in here...definitely PG 18...

It has been my experience that men (in general) are all ears when it comes to learning about how they can be "more of a man".

My hubby used to be very shy about goings-on in the boudoir but I told him that whatever he wanted to tell me was okay and I wouldn't judge him for anything he said. As time went by I encouraged him to share more with me and be more open about sex and intimacy and before you know there isn't anything we can't tell each other. He was raised in a very conservative home (ya know, the kind where the children, even as adults, think there parents number of sexual encounters equals the number of children in the home). They just simply didn't speak about these things. When I started asking him what he wanted and listening to him and trying out new fun things he wanted to do it was much easier for him to be open to constructive criticism and learn how to do things I wanted to do. And hats off to my hubby - he's a VERY good student. LOL. And don't feel like you can't bring some fun toys and products in the room with you. Don't forget we're all mammals, and you've seen what mammals do on the Discovery channel. Animals do that thing they do and it's okay.

Ladies, remember that you are beautiful and deserve that "O" just as much as the next gal. Don't over-think it. Sex is one of the most natural things in the world. Just have fun. You're man (and he is yours) will feel like much more of a man if he knows he's pleasing you.

And if all else fails, JUST SHOW HIM. You can put him where you want him and he'll follow you're lead because - hey - he's gettin' some.

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