If it means anything to you at all.. I understand and hear where you are comming from.. Before I met my husband, it was very rare that I would actually be able to completly enjoy.. it was good but not... Climactic.. Since meeting him, I have found one posistion and only one that is enough and sometimes if there is too much running through my mind it's sometimes can't do it either.
If you are uncomfortable going to a therapist, and not sure how to bring it up, try some fun things, make it a game.. Pick up the *1001 nights of great sex* book, or pick up an adult game.. Ways to try different things that may or may not enhance your pleasure..
Also, while I haven't gone to a therapist myself, I have seen alot of shows dealing with this sort of thing where people go and they allow it to be taped and one of the first things they usually do is get the female (or male) depending on the situation to.. how do I put this... Enjoy themselves.. because really, if you can't make yourself happy and now how it all works then how are you suppose to explain to your partner how to make you happy and go over that edge...
I don't know.. I probably have quite the open view when it comes to this sort of thing, I haven't done it all yet but I'm damn well willing to give it a shot... haha
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