Thank you so much for sharing these things with me; not that I'd wish it on anyone but I'm glad to know you're out there!!! It's really hard to vent to bf/friends etc. because obviously it just puts people in the middle.
I wish so much I could just breeze through and not let any of it affect me but yeah. At least I can see other people know where I'm coming from/have experienced the same thing! I know we have got to get out, and my bf is starting to catch "the vibe" He's starting to get frustrated with how hopeless/useless his friend is, plus he can see how wound up I am.
Dizzy, you're right, I think even starting to plan getting our own place will help me deal with this. I have seen a counsellor for other things so might go back and see her; she was pretty good at working out practical strategies to deal with things.
Hopefully I'll be able to look back and laugh one day??!!
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Re: living arrangements a disaster
He's starting to get frustrated with how hopeless/useless his friend is, plus he can see how wound up I am.
