Re: Need Advice on Husband
08/21/07 12:06 PM
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Lisa Marie
Reged: 07/17/06
Posts: 1566
Loc: Lakewood, CO
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Everyone kept telling me that "if you wait until you're ready, you'll never have a baby." Boy, am I glad I didnt' listen to that. DH and I had always planned on being married for five years before trying. Earlier this year, something finally "switched" for both of us, and we realized we were ready. We've been married just over four years (we'll be 29 in a few months) and plan to start trying next month. I am glad we have waited because we're more financially stable (good jobs, paid off some debt, built up a good savings account, etc.) and we're also EMOTIONALLY ready. That's a big one. If he's not ready, then it will cause a lot of conflict.
My advice: enjoy being married, just the two of you, for as long as you can. Plan, plan, plan!! Set up a budget with financial goals and stick to them. You'll be happy you did. 
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Lisa, IBS-C (Vegan)
Stable since July 2007!
Mommy to Rhiannon Marie (Dec. 13, 2008)
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