I'll tell you honestly and bluntly, the first thing you really need to do is talk about it with your fiance and see where he stands and what his expectations are. The second thing you might consider is talking to your doctor, sooner rather than later, and seeing if there's factors to your low sex drive that can be controlled in any way - if you haven't already, that is.
This is actually a question/problem that's hitting too close to home for me, because I have a raging, insane sex drive, and my boyfriend's is virtually nonexistent. It's led to a LOT of problems - resentment, especially - and we still haven't come up with a good solution.
On the other hand - and this is why it's so important to talk to your fiance - maybe his drive isn't all that strong either, and things will work out just fine. I have friends who have been happily married for 15 or 20 years and not had sex for most of that. Crazier things have happened.
Good luck!
Print
Remind Me
Notify Moderator
|
Posts
An adult-eyes-only reply with moderate TMI
