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I usually try to put myself into everyone's shoes. Find out what they are feeling. Why do they say the things they say? I can think of a hundred reasons why Will is feeling the way he says he feels. HOWEVER, he has no right to say those things to you and HE'S WRONG! He has every right to be frustrated and scared and depressed just like you. But his duty as your husband is to support and love you through whatever may come. We don't promise each other that we'll stay together as long we're healthy and happy and productive. We commit to a lifetime of loyalty, support, and holding the other up when they fall. Love is fun and joyous. Marriage is work. It's worth the work but it doesn't make it any less work. Sometimes it's hard and maybe we think we'd be better off without it. Don't get me wrong. There are instances when people really shouldn't be together. But for most part, I think that when people do things like this it's only because they are frightened and feeling weak.

The only thing you really can do is keep going. I think sometimes we're tested to see how much we can handle before we break. I don't know where you get your strength from but I know you have it. And when it comes to sink or swim, you will ALWAYS swim. You're a strong lady. And for all of us, the only choices are to keep going or lay down and die.

My e-mail is in my profile and, if you ever find yourself on the west coast, your welcome here.

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If you're not dead, you've still got time.

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