I am soooooo sorry you are going through this.
Your story sounds eeerily familiar to a relationship I had that ended when I was 23. I dated him for 6 years, and I too felt an absence of emotion when it did end. It ultimately didn't work because I was constantly fighting opposong values. Do you know what your values are? (not trying to sound condescending)
I dealt with it by making myself busy with work, taking up interests I postponed because of him, got my old self back, spent time with girlfriends, cut my hair because he only liked long, held my head high and kept a journal and dissected everything....I looked at it a couple of years later and could not believe the change in myself.(for the better)I asked myself: What did I learn from this? I did alot of reflecting.
You are intelligent, funny, gorgeous, kind....you won't be alone for long. I firmly believe you attract what YOU ARE, and something that reflects who you are as a person will be more suited to you. It sounds like you deserve and want more of a connection with someone.
Hugs....Wish I could take you out for a pint or two.... 
"When you change the way you look at things,
The things you look at change." (Dr Dyer)
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Amy
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