Irritable Bowel Syndrome Message Boards | Re: Relationships huh? Another one bites the dust...

Hey Blondie,

I know I haven't posted in a while but I just had to reply to your post - I am so sorry that you are going through all this right now.
I can tell from your post that you are really just trying to deal with this as it comes and figure out how you are feeling, and I just wanted to say that it sounds like you are trying to focus on all the right things to get you through this really sh!te time and that if you ever want to talk, my eMail is in my profile and I check it all the time.

I am pretty suprised like you said we'd be to hear of the split, but also that he is acting so strange... It's hard (pretty much impossible, I guess) to figure out what is going on in someone else's head and their reasons for doing something, but you just must be so frustrated! Would he be open to any kind of conversation to find out why the sudden change from lobsters to singletons? And why he is acting as if you're the one that walked away? If so, maybe you'd be able to get some answers that would help you get some closure. I mean, the reasons he gave you are pretty long-term so it's not like they suddenly changed... Hrm, it does sound like he is just getting all wrapped up in himself and has convinced himself that he was being taken for grated - something he will probably realise wasn't true once he has to spend some time alone.

I really do feel for you, 3 years to come to a screeching halt must be a real shock to the system. I don't have any real advice that doesn't just sound cliche and silly, but I'll be thinking of you and remember we can chat any time.

**hugs**
Steph

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