I hope I didn't offend you when I mentioned starting a new thread?? It just makes it harder when any one thread gets too long. I used to start a new one with each new cycle!
I am sure you are very confused about many things at the moment. Try to keep thinking positive. You are on the right road, you know what the problems are and they can be worked around. I know July seems like forever but a little break is good both mentally and physically. I agree, it will also be easier once you can tell your family and friends as well.
My opinion on the left over embryos is to give up them for adoption if you end up not needing them all. That would be a extraordinary gift to someone, especially someone who might not otherwise be able to have a child.
Your poor hubby! It is in no way his fault but I know how mine would react!
I have no advice on your job as I am struggling with similar issues for health reasons though. In my area the economy is so bad, I would have a tough time finding another job in the future that pays anything resembling decent!
My hugs and love sweetie, I know it seems just like FOREVER but you are getting answers AND solutions. Focus on something else! Learn to scrapbook if you don't already, your going to want to take lots of pictures of your little one!
-------------------- Taking it one day at a time.....