is about all I have too! How pathetic is that!?! I know only us IBS'rs can relate. Thank goodness!
I too have refrained for quite some time. I know it's an awful feeling to really have no desire. I honestly could take it or leave it. Men just are different and NEED it. I try to satisfy him orally to make up for not being in the mood. Just don't stress over it. Hopefully just knowing we all feel that way is enough for you to not feel bad. If your hubby is understanding, he most likely will always be. Mine's been putting up with it for probably 10 years or so. Yes, we are lucky to have such understanding men!