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Oh High School *sigh* I miss it so much...it was so fun to stamper out a conversation while your girlfriends are making "Ohhhh" noise behind you LOL

I am no pro - but did go to high school so maybe I could help you out!

First, I have to agree with Mags...find out what his interests are or activities he is involved in. If it is something you can do, sign up for it!

Or even if you can sign onto the newspaper so you can interview him if he plays a sport or something.

Start subtley...but don't be invisible. If he has a tendancy to hang out by his locker...be sure to change your routes to include walking by there. Atleast once a break...so he gets used seeing you around. Eventually you will be exchanging glances and Hi's because you see each other so often.

If you have a friend who has a locker by him...ensure you pick her up on the way to each class (if at all possible)

If he is already staring at you..he knows you exist and that's a good sign...but you have to be patient..almost play hard to get! Be sure to say your plans for lunch when you are down the hall from your friend...like this.

Walk towards your next class and then shout back (as subtle as possible) "Ok so we are going to the diner for lunch today, sounds good. See you after class"

Draw attention to yourself, let him know where you are going without telling HIM!

Also - most importantly! Be confident...guys love confident women...not overly confident...just sure of yourself!

If he looks at you, say HI. If he drops something ahead of you - pick it up for him, smile and then keep moving.

Your confidence will kill them! Seriously I swear I think that's how I got my husband...he pretended like I totally was fine without being with him...while still being friendly to him and major flirting of course.

Best thing too....people (men or women) always want what they think they can't have...mess with him...make him wonder...that will draw him closer.

Pretend like you have so many guys that he has to chase you...and tell yourself that! It will help with your confidence!

I hope I don't sound like I am talking out my butt...but it seriously worked...I got a ring and a date out of deal LOL

Happily ever after! Teehee!

Good luck
(I hope this all made sense!)

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Lana_Marie
Proud Mommy to Bentley Taylor
Born May 12, 2004 9lbs, 3oz

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