Congratulations! Hoping everything is going well. Getting lots of sleep when you can! For the episiotomy can you not put some ice on it. If you wrap ice in a maxi pad and put it there it might give you some relief! I remember after having my daughter the nurse would crack this pad and I would put it where the episiotomy was and it was so cold it was a huge relief. I remember healing really fast with this! Take care of yourself and Mia (beautiful name by the way) and yes the milk will come soon. Sue