I've had tremendous help from the one in King of Prussia, PA. The doctors really understand what you're going through. There's one in Detriot too. I travel 2.5 hours each way to visit mine (Mel goes there too). That should tell you how good they are for me to bother to go that far...!
I hope you can get someone to listen to you who's seen this thing before. Try calling them on the phone and asking some questions. They were really nice with me over the phone. Like no doctor I've ever been to before.
They accept insurence for all the lab tests, and if you've had bloodwork done in the last 3 months they don't repeat unnecessary tests. Their info in Detroit is:
Fibromyalgia & Fatigue Center of Detroit 5877 Livernois, Suite 105 Troy, Michigan 48098 Toll-free: 1-866-443-4276 Phone: 248-813-8900 Fax: 248-813-8979