Re: Antidepressant / Antianxiety Med Question.....
08/25/06 08:00 AM
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MCV
Reged: 01/04/05
Posts: 740
Loc: Manchester, NH
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I think my husband will hold it against me.
I think you need to ask yourself what is more important - your health and wellness, or your husband's opinions of something he obviously doesn't know anything about. It seems to me like your husband isn't being very supportive of you, nor does it seem like he cares that you are in pain. Regardless of what his beliefs are, he should be standing by you and doing whatever he can to help you feel better. I don't see how arguing with your doctor, or holding anything against you is going to help....
If my BF treated me the way your husband has been treating you I don't know what I would do (nor could I imagine him ever saying any of the things your husband has said to you), but it wouldn't be good!! In any healthly relationship, I truly believe that the relationship and the health and happiness of the individuals in it are the most important thing. He should treat you as if you are the number one priority and he should be doing whatever he can to help you through this difficult time. Accusing you of faking or it being all in your head is not productive.
I feel so bad for you....I think you and your husband really need to have a serious talk. In the meantime, do what you feel you should do for YOU. Don't worry about upsetting him - you need to get healthy!
Hope I didn't overstop my bounds here - I just really feel so bad that your husband is treating you this way.
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Michelle
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