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Re: Darn right, girl!!!!
      08/09/06 05:52 AM
Yoda (formerly Hans)

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I think as women and Moms we are often expected to play the martyr. Do everything for everyone else and don't take care of yourself because that's selfish. Ya think June Cleaver ever took time for herself? NO! I think we were programmed from other eras to put ourselves last. And in the day and age where Moms are working, there's even less time.
I finally had a DUH! revelation last week. Women are like cars. If the engine, not to mention the whole car isn't in good shape, the passengers in life aren't getting what they deserve - a smooth ride. We need to keep our engines, bodies and everything else healthy. That means taking care of ourselves. Our children will BENEFIT if we take the time - we become better Moms, people and less stressed.
Now, truthfully, I've had this revelation, but I haven't really implemented it as much as I should - but I'm working on it.
It's hard to put ourselves first after a lifetime of being last. Try it - and then let me know how to do it!!!! I'm terrible at taking my own advice.
XOXO
A.

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* Driving myself CRAZY...ADVICE please....
_Willow
08/08/06 02:38 PM
* Totally understand heres my piece......
susieannah
08/09/06 01:10 PM
* Re: Driving myself CRAZY...ADVICE please....
Stephie
08/08/06 10:21 PM
* Stephie...and all...I'm getting to understand some things.
_Willow
08/08/06 11:54 PM
* Re: Darn right, girl!!!!
Yoda (formerly Hans)
08/09/06 05:52 AM
* Alicia-on and off topic...sort of a rant
_Willow
08/09/06 11:23 AM
* Re: I know... I feel so guilty, too... unworthy....
Yoda (formerly Hans)
08/09/06 03:56 PM
* ALICIA! re: I know... I feel so guilty, too... unworthy....
Brendarific
08/10/06 02:06 PM
* Re:Thanks, Brenda! ....sniff..... -nt-
Yoda (formerly Hans)
08/11/06 05:32 AM
* BIG hug from your online sister.....
_Willow
08/09/06 11:16 PM
* Re: My TWIN!!!!
Yoda (formerly Hans)
08/11/06 08:52 AM
* Atta girl!
_Willow
08/11/06 10:57 AM
* Ahh, slightly recharged...
_Willow
08/10/06 06:27 PM
* I think that everyone has the right idea,
hohoyumyum
08/08/06 08:55 PM
* See, that's the thing I figured out on my quest though....
_Willow
08/08/06 09:09 PM
* Okay ... how about a guy's view ...
Double J
08/08/06 04:31 PM
* I see your points....
_Willow
08/08/06 05:06 PM
* BUMP...more input...need more input
_Willow
08/08/06 08:53 PM
* Re: BUMP...more input...need more input
ArmyWife87
08/09/06 04:47 PM
* Claudia
_Willow
08/09/06 11:26 PM
* Re: OK - here's my take.
Yoda (formerly Hans)
08/08/06 04:28 PM
* Hey A, excellent reply...
_Willow
08/08/06 09:07 PM
* Re: Driving myself CRAZY...advice please....
Portageegal
08/08/06 03:56 PM
* Yep, I get the rebound thing
_Willow
08/08/06 09:25 PM

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