Just reading this and sending a belated hug. That is so cr@p abt Borders. Any pics of the wedding? What was your dress like and where did you get it? I got the one for the wedding I went to in Oasis, it's more summer holidays dress but I felt good and cool in it (temperature wise) I got nasty cramps at the wedding that I was at on Tuesday but P was really enjoying himself so we stayed out for hours...will post pics later...