Irritable Bowel Syndrome Message Boards | And one more thing from me

Cookie,
I want you to know I think you have a great head on your shoulders. I know you are looking at this though every angle available to you. However, you will discover some day what we're all talking about. Because of what you've been through, this seems to be a great fix. But you have to know that right now, no matter how much talking you've done with this guy, you're still wearing rose-colored glasses.

I know where you're at and I know what you're feeling and I'm sure you're frustrated because you're not getting the responses you want. And b/c I've been there, my guess is that you'll do it anyway. But the last thing I'll post in this area is to just not get your daughter involved. Just don't do it. Just put it out of your head. Just tell yourself that no matter what happens with this guy, that you won't even introduce them to each other (even under the disguise of friends) for a minimum of 6 months. Make yourself that promise and I can tell you that you won't be sorry.

You may not want "revenge" any more but that doesn't mean that he won't be out to get YOU. Regardless, because Trevor has done the wrong thing, unfair as it is, you have to be vigilant in being the one that does the RIGHT thing. ALL the time! Some day your daughter will know all about what happened and she will be thankful that you never said an unkind word about her dad in front of her and that you did the right thing.

I don't want to sound like the bitter old gal here and I'm sure that's how I seem so now that I've said my peace, I'll give it a rest.

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Flipada - IBS-C "It's a gas, gas, gas"
**Lauren**

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