Me too, for your daughter
07/16/06 10:59 AM
|
|
|
Stephie
Reged: 03/10/04
Posts: 2696
Loc: Vancouver, Canada
|
|
|
Hi there,
I think it's really nice that you've found someone to chat to and that it is making you feel good about yourself, but I would definitely definitely wait until your divorce is final before you get involved in any kind of relationship that could be construed as romantic. I think that Trevor could, and from his past behaviour probably *would*, use whatever he can against you to get more custody of your daughter. It's not fair to her to say that because he did it, so can you. From the replies to other people's posts, you seem pretty convinced that going for it is what you'll do, so I guess we can't talk you out of it. But I'd just agree with others and if you must, do so very cautiously. You don't want to regret it later if it effects the rest of your life (re: divorce settlement, custody). You know what the say about an ounce of prevention..
Good luck with everything! **hugs** Steph
-------------------- ~~I'm not crazy, I'm just a little unwell-I know right now you can't tell~~Matchbox 20
IBS-D,pain.
Print
Remind Me
Notify Moderator
|
|