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I agree 1000000% with filpada
      06/12/06 06:29 PM
Dr. Spice Yamin

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What he's doing is torturing you!! Quite frankly.. you've been handling this so well (probably too well) which has allowed him to think he can be mister balls to the wall with you and keep hurting you more and more. You know he's getting satisfaction out of this, in a sick twisted way. He's a sick twisted man, and only that sort would find joy in causing you pain.

I know you may not be able to legally burn his crap on fire, but you need to do something and take a stand. Lock him out of the house, and keep him away. Otherwise he's gonna view you as weak and think he can keep walking all over you. He confuses you taking this well, as being a pushover (i'm not saying that you are.. but its fueling his fire). You need to give him a reaction that you aren't gonna take his crap, because in his mind.. you're taking it and taking it and taking it and he's enjoying every darn minute of it.

Also.. why are you doing his laundry? Don't do anything for him EVER again.. all he's done for you is damage you, belittle you, and may have psychologically harmed your daughter who now has to grow up without a father.. or with a father that belittled her mother, and left her for a 17 yr old. Screw him. he doesn't deserve your pity, your chores, or your time.

Sorry.. can you tell i'm P.O.ed.. he's a major jerk, and doens't deserve someone like you.. and I can tell you with 100% certainty that he'll keep on hurting you until you make it stop and give him a reason not to. Kick him where it hurts before he kicks you! (figuratively.. not literally).

Also.. in regards to the you are bad in bed comment.. I agree with Shell.. tell him "if you had a bigger you know what and actually KNEW how to use it maybe I'd actually enjoy sleeping with you. Too bad for it was really me that was suffering all these years from a man with NO SKILLS aka YOU. Its hard not to just lay there when you didn't know how to use it."

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* OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life
_Willow
06/12/06 02:16 PM
* I'm way late on this, but...
ChristineM
06/13/06 08:35 PM
* Re: OOOHHH!!!! He Is SO WRONG!!!!!
Honey mix
06/13/06 10:22 AM
* She's 17, he's 29
_Willow
06/13/06 12:26 PM
* Re: She's 17, he's 29
Lyndsey
06/13/06 12:41 PM
* Yep
_Willow
06/14/06 02:03 PM
* Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life
countrygirl
06/13/06 06:39 AM
* Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life
Lyndsey
06/12/06 08:42 PM
* I can count how many times I
_Willow
06/12/06 08:57 PM
* Sorry ...
Double J
06/12/06 08:02 PM
* that's about it, J....
_Willow
06/12/06 08:57 PM
* Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life
Angela E.
06/12/06 05:19 PM
* Thanks Angela. He said the excuses were worse than the weight
_Willow
06/12/06 08:59 PM
* Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life
Gracie
06/12/06 05:18 PM
* Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life
Gracie
06/12/06 05:23 PM
* LOL already done/
_Willow
06/12/06 09:01 PM
* EXACTLY...
Dr. Spice Yamin
06/12/06 06:20 PM
* Re: So correct me if I'm wrong.....
LittleLisa
06/12/06 06:27 PM
* here in Canada legal age is 14.
_Willow
06/12/06 09:02 PM
* Re: So correct me if I'm wrong.....
AmandaPanda, J.D.
06/12/06 06:34 PM
* Re: So correct me if I'm wrong.....
Dr. Spice Yamin
06/12/06 06:32 PM
* Re: 14 wholly crap!
LittleLisa
06/12/06 07:10 PM
* Criminal, eh?
_Willow
06/12/06 09:04 PM
* Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life
jen1013
06/12/06 05:18 PM
* lol yah, no kidding.
_Willow
06/12/06 09:05 PM
* Re: Loser!
LittleLisa
06/12/06 04:59 PM
* she just had her aftergrad. In fact
_Willow
06/12/06 09:08 PM
* Re: she just had her aftergrad. In fact
Honey mix
06/13/06 10:32 AM
* no, here that means you just finished high school. It's the prom.
_Willow
06/13/06 12:08 PM
* Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life
JLL24
06/12/06 04:36 PM
* The lawyer was nice...justa c onsultation
_Willow
06/12/06 09:12 PM
* Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life
Shell Marr
06/12/06 03:45 PM
* lol you rock! Can you tell him personally??
_Willow
06/12/06 09:14 PM
* P.S. I HATE to bring this up
Shell Marr
06/12/06 09:02 PM
* Yes, you're right, don't feel bad. I will
_Willow
06/12/06 09:15 PM
* Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life
Flipada
06/12/06 03:45 PM
* Actually....:)
_Willow
06/12/06 09:25 PM
* I agree 1000000% with filpada
Dr. Spice Yamin
06/12/06 06:29 PM
* LOL
_Willow
06/12/06 09:35 PM
* well...
Dr. Spice Yamin
06/13/06 07:42 AM
* Yes, I ahve thought of that, believe ME!
_Willow
06/13/06 12:11 PM
* Re: I agree 1000000% with filpada
Gracie
06/12/06 08:33 PM
* I guess I can now....
_Willow
06/12/06 09:37 PM
* Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life
cailin
06/12/06 03:37 PM
* Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life
hohoyumyum
06/12/06 03:27 PM
* Yah, you can do something...
_Willow
06/12/06 09:43 PM
* Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life
Snorkie
06/12/06 02:57 PM
* Im having to control myself here...
Natalie1985
06/12/06 02:42 PM
* Well, they say, don't get mad...
_Willow
06/12/06 09:46 PM
* Well said...
Natalie1985
06/13/06 03:02 AM
* Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life
michele
06/12/06 02:28 PM
* I am fat though.....
_Willow
06/12/06 09:48 PM
* Re: OH NO YOU ARE NOT!!!!
Yoda (formerly Hans)
06/13/06 06:51 AM
* ((((((((((((((thanks Alicia)))))))))))))))
_Willow
06/13/06 12:15 PM
* Re: ((((((((((((((thanks Alicia)))))))))))))))
Yoda (formerly Hans)
06/14/06 05:39 AM
* Thank you Alicia- smart you are, young Jedi.
_Willow
06/14/06 11:05 AM
* Re: Not young really, but thanks for the wise part...
Yoda (formerly Hans)
06/14/06 01:52 PM
* Re: OH NO YOU ARE NOT!!!!
pinkprincess
06/13/06 08:06 AM
* Re: OH NO YOU ARE NOT!!!!
Lyndsey
06/13/06 09:22 AM
* Your picture??
Double J
06/13/06 09:51 AM
* I'll put it back up when
_Willow
06/13/06 12:20 PM
* Picture ...
Double J
06/13/06 08:45 PM
* Hey you sneaky fox!
_Willow
06/13/06 09:20 PM
* Just like my sister!! - nt -
Double J
06/13/06 10:51 PM
* legal eagle popping up again here ...
AmandaPanda, J.D.
06/13/06 02:25 PM
* Regal Beagle, thank you! And a pop quiz to all....
_Willow
06/13/06 03:57 PM
* Re: Regal Beagle, thank you! And a pop quiz to all....
Portageegal
06/13/06 05:22 PM
* YOU WIN!!!
_Willow
06/13/06 06:24 PM
* Good .... - nt -
Double J
06/13/06 12:31 PM
* Re: OH NO YOU ARE NOT!!!!
michele
06/13/06 07:27 AM
* Re: OH NO YOU ARE NOT!!!!
Portageegal
06/13/06 08:34 AM
* be careful about engaging in "self help"
AmandaPanda, J.D.
06/12/06 04:04 PM
* Re: be careful about engaging in "self help"
Shell Marr
06/12/06 04:06 PM
* LOL that was awesome. I am being very careful law wise!!
_Willow
06/12/06 08:54 PM
* Can't you leave...
Double J
06/13/06 06:05 AM
* maybe could be construed as surrendering the home
AmandaPanda, J.D.
06/13/06 11:58 AM
* That's what is really good about this board ...
Double J
06/13/06 12:47 PM
* Oh, this is the best board ever. honestly.
_Willow
06/13/06 09:22 PM
* Look, it's two more weeks..and then he's 3 doors down
_Willow
06/13/06 12:24 PM
* Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life
Portageegal
06/12/06 02:26 PM
* Aww, you sweetie...
_Willow
06/12/06 08:55 PM

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