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Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life       06/12/06 03:45 PM Edit Reply Quote Flipada Reged: 03/02/06 Posts: 1026 Loc: West Michigan, USA It's verrrrry hard to be calm at a time like this. It's hard to think straight but that's exactly what you have to do. He'll have his butt in a sling for admitting outright that he's sleeping with this girl who is under 18, AND while you're still legally married. While you may say now (and even believe) that you want nothing from him, you will need money (child support/alimony) for you and your daughter to survive. I mentioned before that you need to write everything down. Every time he brings her around, every time he brings her around your daughter, every time he makes a comment about how hot she is in front of you, every time he talks/giggles to her on the phone in your presence. Shannon, in an essence, he's purposely torturing you. He knows exactly what he's doing. He knows he's hurting you and he continues. He's getting a little more ballsy now in confiding what's really going on because he's pretty comfortable with the fact that he thinks he knows you well enough that you're not going to do anything about it. He's pretty sure you won't stoop to his level to hurt him back. You said you've secured a lawyer and have an appt. set up. Make sure you write this stuff down before you go. Don't wait....do it while these things are clear in your head. You do NOT need to let him come back and stay in your house after he's done his week or whatever at his mom's. When he goes, change the locks and tell him he can make an appt. with you to get his stuff (as long as you have someone else there with you). Don't tell him ahead of time that you're changing the locks. If he calls the police, all you have to do is tell them the situation and what he's been doing. I don't think you'll find any difficulties in getting them on your side. Shannon, I really feel for you. I was so naive when I went through my divorce. He was being cruel and as angry and as hurt as I was, I still didn't want to hurt him and I wanted nothing from him. Bad move. I'm here. I've been "hovering". Stay strong. BIG hugs. Lauren -------------------- Flipada - IBS-C "It's a gas, gas, gas" **Lauren** Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator

Entire thread OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life _Willow 06/12/06 02:16 PM I'm way late on this, but... ChristineM 06/13/06 08:35 PM Re: OOOHHH!!!! He Is SO WRONG!!!!! Honey mix 06/13/06 10:22 AM She's 17, he's 29 _Willow 06/13/06 12:26 PM Re: She's 17, he's 29 Lyndsey 06/13/06 12:41 PM Yep _Willow 06/14/06 02:03 PM Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life countrygirl 06/13/06 06:39 AM Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life Lyndsey 06/12/06 08:42 PM I can count how many times I _Willow 06/12/06 08:57 PM Sorry ... Double J 06/12/06 08:02 PM that's about it, J.... _Willow 06/12/06 08:57 PM Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life Angela E. 06/12/06 05:19 PM Thanks Angela. He said the excuses were worse than the weight _Willow 06/12/06 08:59 PM Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life Gracie 06/12/06 05:18 PM Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life Gracie 06/12/06 05:23 PM LOL already done/ _Willow 06/12/06 09:01 PM EXACTLY... Dr. Spice Yamin 06/12/06 06:20 PM Re: So correct me if I'm wrong..... LittleLisa 06/12/06 06:27 PM here in Canada legal age is 14. _Willow 06/12/06 09:02 PM Re: So correct me if I'm wrong..... AmandaPanda, J.D. 06/12/06 06:34 PM Re: So correct me if I'm wrong..... Dr. Spice Yamin 06/12/06 06:32 PM Re: 14 wholly crap! LittleLisa 06/12/06 07:10 PM Criminal, eh? _Willow 06/12/06 09:04 PM Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life jen1013 06/12/06 05:18 PM lol yah, no kidding. _Willow 06/12/06 09:05 PM Re: Loser! LittleLisa 06/12/06 04:59 PM she just had her aftergrad. In fact _Willow 06/12/06 09:08 PM Re: she just had her aftergrad. In fact Honey mix 06/13/06 10:32 AM no, here that means you just finished high school. It's the prom. _Willow 06/13/06 12:08 PM Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life JLL24 06/12/06 04:36 PM The lawyer was nice...justa c onsultation _Willow 06/12/06 09:12 PM Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life Shell Marr 06/12/06 03:45 PM lol you rock! Can you tell him personally?? _Willow 06/12/06 09:14 PM P.S. I HATE to bring this up Shell Marr 06/12/06 09:02 PM Yes, you're right, don't feel bad. I will _Willow 06/12/06 09:15 PM Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life Flipada 06/12/06 03:45 PM Actually....:) _Willow 06/12/06 09:25 PM I agree 1000000% with filpada Dr. Spice Yamin 06/12/06 06:29 PM LOL _Willow 06/12/06 09:35 PM well... Dr. Spice Yamin 06/13/06 07:42 AM Yes, I ahve thought of that, believe ME! _Willow 06/13/06 12:11 PM Re: I agree 1000000% with filpada Gracie 06/12/06 08:33 PM I guess I can now.... _Willow 06/12/06 09:37 PM Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life cailin 06/12/06 03:37 PM Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life hohoyumyum 06/12/06 03:27 PM Yah, you can do something... _Willow 06/12/06 09:43 PM Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life Snorkie 06/12/06 02:57 PM Im having to control myself here... Natalie1985 06/12/06 02:42 PM Well, they say, don't get mad... _Willow 06/12/06 09:46 PM Well said... Natalie1985 06/13/06 03:02 AM Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life michele 06/12/06 02:28 PM I am fat though..... _Willow 06/12/06 09:48 PM Re: OH NO YOU ARE NOT!!!! Yoda (formerly Hans) 06/13/06 06:51 AM ((((((((((((((thanks Alicia))))))))))))))) _Willow 06/13/06 12:15 PM Re: ((((((((((((((thanks Alicia))))))))))))))) Yoda (formerly Hans) 06/14/06 05:39 AM Thank you Alicia- smart you are, young Jedi. _Willow 06/14/06 11:05 AM Re: Not young really, but thanks for the wise part... Yoda (formerly Hans) 06/14/06 01:52 PM Re: OH NO YOU ARE NOT!!!! pinkprincess 06/13/06 08:06 AM Re: OH NO YOU ARE NOT!!!! Lyndsey 06/13/06 09:22 AM Your picture?? Double J 06/13/06 09:51 AM I'll put it back up when _Willow 06/13/06 12:20 PM Picture ... Double J 06/13/06 08:45 PM Hey you sneaky fox! _Willow 06/13/06 09:20 PM Just like my sister!! - nt - Double J 06/13/06 10:51 PM legal eagle popping up again here ... AmandaPanda, J.D. 06/13/06 02:25 PM Regal Beagle, thank you! And a pop quiz to all.... _Willow 06/13/06 03:57 PM Re: Regal Beagle, thank you! And a pop quiz to all.... Portageegal 06/13/06 05:22 PM YOU WIN!!! _Willow 06/13/06 06:24 PM Good .... - nt - Double J 06/13/06 12:31 PM Re: OH NO YOU ARE NOT!!!! michele 06/13/06 07:27 AM Re: OH NO YOU ARE NOT!!!! Portageegal 06/13/06 08:34 AM be careful about engaging in "self help" AmandaPanda, J.D. 06/12/06 04:04 PM Re: be careful about engaging in "self help" Shell Marr 06/12/06 04:06 PM LOL that was awesome. I am being very careful law wise!! _Willow 06/12/06 08:54 PM Can't you leave... Double J 06/13/06 06:05 AM maybe could be construed as surrendering the home AmandaPanda, J.D. 06/13/06 11:58 AM That's what is really good about this board ... Double J 06/13/06 12:47 PM Oh, this is the best board ever. honestly. _Willow 06/13/06 09:22 PM Look, it's two more weeks..and then he's 3 doors down _Willow 06/13/06 12:24 PM Re: OOOHHH!!!! Another addition to my Jerry Springer life Portageegal 06/12/06 02:26 PM Aww, you sweetie... _Willow 06/12/06 08:55 PM

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