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Hey Shannon,

Just wanted to say Hi.. and good luck with the stength and the cookie eating, hee hee.

I am glad that you are trying to look at things from all angles, I think that's a good idea.

If I can be totally honest, though, and I hope I don't hurt your feelings.. I could have seen this post from a mile away. The defending Trevor part, I mean. I have been through so many crappy breakups vicariously through my girl friends and this almost always happens. The venting, then the apologising, then the defending the ex.
I think it is just a grief stage that everyone goes through during a break up -especially one they don't want to happen- and I hope that soon you can appreciate that it doesn't matter if he *sometimes* did nice things, he is not even close to being in your league and you're so much better off without him.

And as for him looking at naked 17 year old girls, that's illegal. Period. My boyfriend used to work for an intelligence agency, and they have arrested people for looking at that. And if he's looking at those "barely legal" sites, those girls are like 15. I know girls that have done it through working with girls at a counselling centre. It's sick. Illegal. And unforgivable.

You are so so much better than this, Shannon! We love you lots, feel free to vent any time!

**hugs**
Steph

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