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      06/03/06 07:38 AM
Flipada

Reged: 03/02/06
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Loc: West Michigan, USA

When you say you lost your guts (getting a lawyer) what do you mean? What are you feeling? Are you afraid of how he will react if you get one? Are you afraid that getting a lawyer might make it all too real?

I believe it was only days ago that you were sure that he wouldn't see someone else..that he wasn't that kind of guy. And some of us said, that you never really know a person.

I'm not pulling an I told ya so, but I want you to think about why it is you are resisting getting a lawyer. And maybe part of it is that you still truly believe that he won't take more advantage of you and your daughter. But those of us that have been in this position I'm sure are just dying that you're dragging your feet on the lawyer thing.

Trust me when I say that it can't hurt to get a lawyer. It can only help. You have to stop thinking about him and his feelings all together and what you think you know about him or what you think he'd do, and take care of yourself and your daughter. SHE is number one. You have to take steps to protect her whether her dad is in the picture or not.

I hope this doesn't come across as too harsh but I see a little bit of you in the old me and I just want for you the best. I sense your hesitance and I want to help push you along as others do here. As women with experience in this area, we really are just trying to help.

Get that lawyer, first thing on Monday. No more excuses. You can always find time to talk on the phone....even if you're teaching (planning hour, lunch period, after school). Just do it. Please.

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06/01/06 10:10 PM
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06/01/06 08:38 PM
* No, another twist in our lives makes it hard for him to move out
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06/01/06 08:43 PM
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06/01/06 08:47 PM
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06/01/06 08:54 PM
* Re: LOL I wish....
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06/01/06 08:59 PM
* Oh nice!
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06/01/06 09:06 PM
* Re: Oh nice!
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06/02/06 04:46 AM
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06/01/06 08:09 PM
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06/01/06 08:23 PM
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06/01/06 08:30 PM
* Shannon...
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06/01/06 08:45 PM
* SIGH, legal age of consent here is 14.
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06/01/06 08:53 PM
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06/03/06 12:49 PM
* You know what else is perverted?
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06/03/06 08:03 PM
* Re: that is crazy!-nt
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06/03/06 05:26 PM
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06/01/06 09:03 PM
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06/03/06 07:09 PM
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06/03/06 10:03 PM
* Re: SIGH, legal age of consent here is 14.
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06/01/06 09:10 PM
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06/01/06 09:13 PM
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06/02/06 05:39 AM
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06/02/06 09:36 PM
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06/03/06 10:19 AM
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06/03/06 10:18 AM
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06/01/06 08:53 PM
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* OK, OK!!!
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06/03/06 10:28 AM
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06/03/06 12:50 PM
* That's good advice from Flipada. Do it Monday. - nt -
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06/03/06 08:22 AM
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