Good Lord! What on earth would anyone do that for? You are not over-reacting. She needs to leave him and restart her life and hopefully he'll seek some sort of help. He obviously can't be trusted. And who knows what else he has lied about over the years? I'm so sorry that all of you have to deal with this, what a horrible thing to go through. 'C' needs to be supported and she can't marry him. Nothing but hearache and pain will come from it. If he's doing this to vandalize the relationship no marriage is going to happen anyway. I've had to deal with equally nasty things and the best thing you can do (the best thing anyone can do) is walk away from the person who caused it. Cut all contact and establish a new life. You can't help someone like this. If they are ever going to get better, they need to seek help on their own. And the people they've hurt and manipulated can't be a part of that process. I hope that all of you can stay strong and help each other through this.
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Re: You just wouldn't believe what's happened over the past few days... (VERY long post)
