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Re: OMGOSH Shannon,
      05/29/06 11:52 PM

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I also have been married many years. There have been so many times when I thought I could not take one more breathe around this man without passing out. (no violence, just a way of speaking). He has said he felt the same way. There is so much work that goes on day in and day out to keep a marriage strong. IT takes many talks, through long periods of not speaking, to me that is the most painful.We have always come back to each other. After 31 years, we have found a way to live with each other and appreciate the love we have, it is a very hard and long job. I pray that for Kayleighs sake that the two of you can work things out.

If it were me, the porn would have to go, totally, period. I just could not raise my child in a home with that filth. If he truly is addicted, he does need help. Though it is difficult to get someone to admit an addiction. It may take a long time for him to get full of it long enough to say he needs help. And, that is my prayer for him and you, that he will get the help he needs to move on into a healthy marriage, you so deserve that Shannon!

I have an adult son right now who I am talking with daily, he won't admit his addiction, he keeps saying he is not addicted, he does not need help. Though today, he told me he would see a therapist,and that is where I am hopeing he will learn that he needs to admit these things and get the help he truly needs before he looses everything dear to him.

God Bless You Shannon, I really do relate!

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* talked to a counsellor... WARNING-grown up language
05/24/06 06:58 PM
* Re: talked to a counsellor... WARNING-grown up language
Angela E.
05/25/06 05:47 PM
* Thank you, and I'm sorry to everyone as well...
05/25/06 08:34 PM
* Shannon
05/25/06 10:58 AM
* thank you, BL! I truly believe that
05/25/06 12:29 PM
* Re: OMGOSH Shannon,
05/29/06 11:52 PM
* That is ROUGH
05/25/06 08:22 AM
* Yeah...well, I was pretty OK with it before I knew it could hurt!
05/25/06 12:24 PM
* Shannon, I sent you an e-mail...let me know if you got it OK?~nt~
05/25/06 07:55 AM
* I did. Haven't replied yet. NT
05/25/06 12:17 PM
* Shannon....
05/25/06 08:24 AM
* Twelve Step Programs
05/25/06 07:53 AM
* Re: talked to a counsellor... WARNING-grown up language
05/25/06 07:27 AM
* Re: talked to a counsellor... WARNING-grown up language
05/25/06 06:38 AM
* Go get the book "Every Mans Battle" today......
05/25/06 05:06 AM
* You know, it never did bother me
05/25/06 12:07 PM
* Re: talked to a counsellor... WARNING-grown up language
05/24/06 07:38 PM
* yeah, I can almost guarantee you that
05/24/06 08:23 PM
* Certainly would make sense
Sailing Away
05/24/06 07:07 PM
* Re: Certainly would make sense
05/24/06 08:20 PM
* Re: Certainly would make sense
05/25/06 07:49 AM
* Thank you. i am always open to obviously
05/25/06 12:04 PM
* Re: Certainly would make sense
Double J
05/24/06 08:30 PM
* I'm not sure how to aaproach it...
05/24/06 10:03 PM

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