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talked to a counsellor... WARNING-grown up language
      05/24/06 06:58 PM
_Willow

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and some stuff came out that I had no idea about.

Dh might have a porn addiction. The behaviours he is showing with the stuff going on to chatrooms is possibly a manifestation of an ADDICTION! She said all the things he's been doing are really strong indicators of an addiction-secrecy, not wanting to talk, possibly spilling over into gambling or alcohol addiction. I ahve seen him drink heavily in the past but when he quit, that's when he also began getting super into porn and that's also when our sex life went downhill.


Hmm. A big breakthrough and I totally want to talk to him about this.All along it was something I thought was no big deal but maybe he has an addiction. I did throw out literally boxes of porn when we got married, and then I found more after we wer married awhile...he stopped buying it when we got the Internet.

What do you all think?? It might explain why he doesn't know how to express what he's feeling! He really would ahve a hard time explaining that because it's not obvious!

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* talked to a counsellor... WARNING-grown up language
_Willow
05/24/06 06:58 PM
* Re: talked to a counsellor... WARNING-grown up language
Angela E.
05/25/06 05:47 PM
* Thank you, and I'm sorry to everyone as well...
_Willow
05/25/06 08:34 PM
* Shannon
BL
05/25/06 10:58 AM
* thank you, BL! I truly believe that
_Willow
05/25/06 12:29 PM
* Re: OMGOSH Shannon,
gigi
05/29/06 11:52 PM
* That is ROUGH
epa_ginger
05/25/06 08:22 AM
* Yeah...well, I was pretty OK with it before I knew it could hurt!
_Willow
05/25/06 12:24 PM
* Shannon, I sent you an e-mail...let me know if you got it OK?~nt~
nomorepooch
05/25/06 07:55 AM
* I did. Haven't replied yet. NT
_Willow
05/25/06 12:17 PM
* Shannon....
cailin
05/25/06 08:24 AM
* Twelve Step Programs
Sand
05/25/06 07:53 AM
* Re: talked to a counsellor... WARNING-grown up language
torbetta
05/25/06 07:27 AM
* Re: talked to a counsellor... WARNING-grown up language
Sara-Sage
05/25/06 06:38 AM
* Go get the book "Every Mans Battle" today......
nomorepooch
05/25/06 05:06 AM
* You know, it never did bother me
_Willow
05/25/06 12:07 PM
* Re: talked to a counsellor... WARNING-grown up language
Gracie
05/24/06 07:38 PM
* yeah, I can almost guarantee you that
_Willow
05/24/06 08:23 PM
* Certainly would make sense
Sailing Away
05/24/06 07:07 PM
* Re: Certainly would make sense
_Willow
05/24/06 08:20 PM
* Re: Certainly would make sense
torbetta
05/25/06 07:49 AM
* Thank you. i am always open to e-mail....as obviously
_Willow
05/25/06 12:04 PM
* Re: Certainly would make sense
Double J
05/24/06 08:30 PM
* I'm not sure how to aaproach it...
_Willow
05/24/06 10:03 PM

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