Reged: 03/02/06
Posts: 1026
Loc: West Michigan, USA
I can see why you don't want to see him as a liar. I also see how you can't think of yourself being that naive...no one does. I can tell you that crashing a car and being with another woman while you're still married (even if it's officially off) are two completely different things. Besides the fact that if he tells you he IS seeing someone, you can use that against him in divorce proceedings....infidelity. As long as you're still married officially that is always an issue legally.
I understand why you want to trust...but go with your instincts here. We as women don't give ourselves enough credit. I should have seen the signs and there were times that I said something to my ex and believing that he would never lie to me, he did. I am not a naive person. I was with him for 11 years. You'd think I would have known him....
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**Lauren**
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Re: I agree 100%. Here's why I find it hard to see him as a liar though....
