Hi Shannon, I am semi new to this board and haven't been in "the living room" much so trying to catch up on what's going on. I have to agree with most of what I read. You do deserve to know but I completely see myself in you. I am comfortable with the fact my hubby wouldn't cheat on me but he can have a temper issue and I know my children and I tend to walk on eggshells around him. I find myself trying not to bring up topics so my hubby won't get mad just like you don't want him knowing you found the picture of the girl for fear of ruining your reconciliation. I have been just dealing with it anymore and find myself almost accepting things the way they are. It's weird to read the post from I believe it was Ashley? How she wrote that she found herself being someone she wasn't for fear of losing the guy she was with at the time. That hit home with my marriage now-scary huh? Anyhow, sorry to talk about my issues when this is a rough time for you..just wanted to let you know, I can relate and if you need to vent or talk, feel free. But I also know that if I had any suspicions about my hubby and another girl, THAT I'd have no fear to ask him about. It's not easy for sure but think of the long term effects on you and your daughter! You both deserve better than that and if he is with someone else, sounds like they deserve each other. I apologize if that sounds rude but it just irritates me when men act that way. hang in there and be strong! Plus this can't be good for ones IBS!
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