Okay my friend … I really am saddened for you and your family, and wish for you the all the happiest and joy that you could ever stand. When I started visiting this message board your smiling face was always there. I can't visualize you any other way.
Now from a guy point of view … (and from one that is on a second marriage because I thought that I could not get along with the first).
What I have learned over the years, especially about myself, is that men really are air heads when it comes to their relationships with their sweethearts. And it's really, really scary how little thought that we put into any relationship. My own sweet mother would agree that I can not put two intelligent thoughts together while chewing gum, and doing the dishes. And I consider myself more intelligent than the average joe.
And about sex … half the time it just does not compute for us. We can become upset for not having enough, for having to ask for it, for having to initiate sex, and when I am busy with work, cars, household chores or anything else, become upset with a dear wife who is offering herself.
What!! … my wife can't read my mind?? Well then, I will just go off somewhere and pout! Until … I finally realize how good I've really got it, and then I will be slinking back. And we thought the female of the species is confusing!
Hang in there, sister! God loves you! My prayer is that our Heavenly Father will open Trevor's eye's, heart, and mind before it's too late. Before he says something that he will regret, and before he's 55 years old.
I know that it can be hard, but try to be patient, and understanding. In each of us "macho guys" there is a little boy just waiting to pounce and throw a hammer at something that is working so good.
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 Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, “I will try again tomorrow”. Mary Anne Radmacher
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