I'm sorry to hear about your flatmate. I can tell you're a super compassionate friend...But, remember...(and I ahve to give myself this advice over and OVER!!) you are not her, and she is not you. It is her thing she's going thorugh, and her choice she's made and has to make. All you have power over is to support her. And do NOT let this get in the way of your uni!! I let my sister's drug problem interfere with years of mine and I guarantee if I'd not done that, I'd have had a job for a year or two by now.
Hang in there, it will all sort itself out. I personally hope she gives the baby up for adoption and seeks him ior her out as an adult if she needs. I know now as a mature adult that's what I'd do. Of course, when I thought I was PG at 23, well, that was another story!!:) She will do what is best for her and all you can do is support her, or smak her upside the head if she needs it.
Hugs, you're an incredible mate!!
-------------------- Keep on keepin' on...
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